Healthy sex life is when all the sexual desires are expressed honestly, and the pent-up sexual fantasies are explored to the fullest. The adage speaks of how different strokes are for different blokes, and there is no accounting for taste since we have different backgrounds and mindsets, but we can be grateful that there are many like us, even if we have the craziest fantasies or wildest sexual fetishes.

For instance, some men frequently visited rencontres dominatrice because they like to be dominated, and some women want to dominate men; hence, case in point that there is no straight-line when it comes to a sexual fetish. So, let’s check the top three most common sexual fetishes out there for us to relate and understand better:

Domination

It doesn’t matter if you’re a guy or a girl; it is basic human nature to want to dominate and be dominated. Some are born to be great leaders while some to be loyal followers, and it doesn’t change the fact that we are alive and enjoying life in our own special way. A client of a dominatrix friend of mine once told me that she had a regular customer who would visit her every week, just to be dominated and ordered around by her, without even having sex. While it may sound weird to you, for them, it’s something very fulfilling and pleasurable.

Bondage

Some people like to be dominated using ropes, handcuffs, and other binding tools to restrict their movement and make them submit fully with limited to no chance to escape. This way, they assume a submissive role to their “master” or “dominatrix” entirely and give up control over their body; even their actions are controlled, such as being told to hold their orgasm when they are about to climax or to stimulate themselves.

Sadism

There are also people who enjoy inflicting pain on others and enforcing many arm-twisting power plays via humiliation, torture, and role play. These people like to be in charge and dish out the punishments to others because they want to feel superior and have power over others since they usually don’t get to be in control in their regular life. But there are also those who simply enjoy watching others suffer, scream or squirm helplessly, like Mr. Christian Grey from the Fifty Shades of Grey franchise. While it may look harsh, please keep in mind that there is a safe word, and it is a form of sexual fetish that is generally safe and enjoyable, albeit a bit kinky.

The Bottom Line

There are many things that turn someone on, and it’s best for us not to judge people based on their sexual affinity or fantasies. Isn’t it better to live in a world where we can freely express ourselves without being judged or hated for our preferences? Let us be more open-minded and share this article to help others experience sexual freedom!